[In light of some really horrible tweets posted to the @Louis_Tomlinson Twitter account, my cousin Emma wrote an essay responding to this.]
I don’t believe Louis Tomlinson is a
homophobe.
If you’re arriving late to this
party, or don’t care at all about One Direction (why do you not
care about One Direction? Love yourself, listen to their music.),
allow me to fill you in. Sunday November 2nd, 2014 saw an interview of Harry Styles and Liam Payne posted online by ODE. In
this interview, Harry and Liam are asked what traits they look for in
a girl. Liam responds with a cheeky, “Female, it’s a good trait.”
Harry then replied, with a grin, “not that important.” This, of course, fueled massive
speculation about Harry’s sexuality, but that's nothing new.
About a week later, fellow 1D member
Louis Tomlinson was photographed at the X-Factor studios wearing a
shirt with the rainbow Apple logo on it – a logo which had recently
been used as a symbol of support for Apple CEO Tim Cook, who a few
days prior had come out as gay. Yes, it is possible that Louis
just liked the old Apple logo and pays no attention to recent events
and it’s all a coincidence. But do you really think that’s the
case?
Enter the Sunday November
9th, 2014 article in The Independent: “Louis Tomlinson supports gay Apple CEO Time Cook – days after Harry Styles’ comments on gender and sexuality.” Nowhere in this article does it speculate or
even mention Louis’s sexuality; it praises his support of the
LGBTQA+ community and reminds us of Harry’s comments the week
before. That is literally all.
And yet, come Monday November 10th,
2014, a tweet was posted to Louis’s Twitter account to the writer
of the article: “The fact that you work for such a ‘credible’
paper and you would talk such rubbish is laughable. I am in fact
straight.” And then a few minutes later: “Fucking ridiculous I
even have to tweet that shit !”
I read those tweets and my heart
dropped into my stomach.
You could tell me, “Emma, it’s a
harmless comment, it’s a celebrity defending their sexuality! No
big deal, you’re overreacting!” But I’m not. And the countless
other queer 1D fans who were sickened and hurt by this are not
overreacting either.
First off, nowhere in the article does
anyone insinuate anything about Louis’s sexuality. It is an
overwhelmingly positive piece about his support of the LGBTQA+
community. When I saw those photos of his shirt the
other day, I was beyond thrilled. To have such open support of
someone like me on a celebrity of that status when so much of the
world is constantly telling me and people like me that we’re wrong
for existing, it’s not a feeling I can describe. It was incredibly
important.
And then, to have that all followed up
by these tweets that lash out at someone who dares to equate his
wearing a t-shirt as support, that call his alleged support of
non-heterosexual people “rubbish,” I can’t describe how that
feels either. Countless posts are going around social media right now
of One Direction fans supporting each other and offering an ear to listen or a
shoulder to cry on after these comments. The One Direction fan base is
primarily young women, with a large subset of those young fans being
non-heterosexual. Having one of the people we love and support
aggressively trying to distance himself from our community in such a
blatant way does nothing to support these young women in their
journey to finding and accepting themselves. It doesn’t matter to
me in the slightest how Louis Tomlinson identifies; what matters to
me is the hundreds of thousands of young people who see what gets
posted to that Twitter account, and how irresponsible it is to use
that kind of platform to be so rude and aggressive about supporting
LGBTAQ+ people.
But I don’t believe Louis Tomlinson
is a homophobe. I’ve seen enough interviews and heard enough
firsthand fan accounts of what he’s like to not believe for a
second that he wrote those tweets. [Note from Odelia: Louis has had countless opportunities to dispel actual rumors surrounding his sexuality, especially yesterday during the livestream when he was asked several times about the "oddest rumors" he's heard about himself, and could've also talked about his girlfriend Eleanor when he was prompted (twice), but he didn't.] But I believe someone on his team
wants us to think he did, and I think that person or those people
don’t care about non-heterosexual 1D fans or people in general. And
to be honest, I couldn’t be less surprised, but I also couldn’t
be more disappointed.
Queer One Direction fans shouldn’t be
made to feel like less valuable members of the family, just as all
queer people should not be made to feel less important than their
heterosexual peers. Whether this was a horribly miscalculated PR move
or I drastically misread Louis’s character and it actually was him
tweeting those things, an apology and a shift in views is more than
necessary. Being rumored to be gay or bisexual or trans or asexual or
pansexual or anything not cis-heterosexual is not something people
need to defend themselves against, celebrity or not. It’s almost
2015, friends; queer people are everywhere, and it’s time to stop
treating us like we’re less worthy of your respect because of who
we are.
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